Embrace self love
Being hungry for love or even desperate for it at times, can bring you heart aches, you may feel trampled upon and witness yourself tolerating people,friends, lovers, bosses that treat you unfairly or poorly- leaving you feeling victimised. Sometimes you go looking to blame someone else and make yourself out as the innocent one. Truth is ,you allow yourself to be treated the way they do because of your poor self worth. The way you see yourself is flawed with self doubt,low confidence and fear of success. So you undermine your self and your abilities and send out the energy that attracts and encourages the “woe to me “mentality.
Meaning you settle for less and simply allow people to disrespect your worth and You keep taking because deep down inside you believe you don’t deserve any better. This is all a matter of low self esteem and poor sense of self It feels crappy when you see and feel your self esteem embbing away. For me, as a student of unhealthy, obsessing and infatuating relationships, learning to understand that the most important relationship is the one I have with myself is quite liberating. It is freedom to feel and know that I donot have to apologise for who I am but embrace myself with all my flaws .Loving me and what i stand for without apologies is expansion. I honour my choices – the right and the wrong ones. There are perfect choices because I am perfect. I am growing, evolving and taking me to a higher level. The imperfections and the idiosyncrasies are the summary and the beauty of who I am. I am perfect. I will no longer be looking for love in unusual places because I am Love .